I’m too confused to even formulate a question. I would say that I’m looking for advice about how this situation can be approached perhaps? We have had such a long run and have always been happy together, but this new life variable of a baby seems to do nothing but be a path of blocking our freedom to enjoy our relationship. Every turn we have come to leads to another decision that needs to push me farther away so that she can provide what her and her family think is best for her child. Like I said I don’t necessarily agree with her methods.
So I guess my question really is. Is it worth it to be in a complex relationship that at this point is unsatisfying that will most likely lead to being a 4 year long distance relationship? I can assume what the answer is to that question, but I’de like to see what other thinks about my situation and perhaps see how they would react.