Thanks for the advice. We had already planned on going to a rave and doing some partying this weekend, but I’m still unsure of whether I want to tell her how I feel.
Our high school prom is coming up in a couple of months, and a while back we did a sort of agreement to go with each other. But now, I’m not sure if we are going together. Someone else asked her just last weekend and she didn’t give him a “no, I already have a date” answer. She gave him an “I don’t know” answer (there have been a couple other guys who have asked her also). I talked to her about it afterward (as I was there when the guy asked her), and she said that she knew she was going to hurt someone’s feelings by going with someone else and then feel really bad. I honestly had no clue what to do, so I told her that she should go with whoever she wants and that we’ll all end up having fun anyway (as I didn’t want to seem like I would die if she didn’t go with me). One of our mutual friends also doesn’t have a date to prom and she is a really sweet girl (Savannah), but also very, VERY shy. Sara (the girl I have feelings for) was talking to me about how I should ask Savannah to prom, but tell her just as friends, because she didn’t think that Savannah would do much to find a date herself. This was all said after Sara and I had agreed to go together, but before the other guys had asked her. So I just don’t understand why she would ask me if I wanted to ask Savannah AFTER we had decided to go with each other already. Is she wanting to find someone to go with that isn’t a friend, but rather a guy that likes her?
I’m very sorry for throwing all of this out. I just have no clue what to think. There is always so much going through my head about what on earth she is thinking. I can find another date to prom, but I’d really rather go with Sara (and I’ve told her this). If you didn’t understand anything, just let me know and I can try and clear it up. I basically just wrote my thoughts. Thanks again!
