[someguy100]

Thank you so much for your advice april i really appreicate it. A couple more questions if you dont mind. How should i ask her whats the problem etc etc? and if she says not at the moment, but she does like me etc etc…how should i go about dealing with that situation?

[someguy100]

I have had 1 relationship after her and met so many girls and got to know them, flirt with sum etc. But when i made sure start of this year i needed to bring things into perspective and what i wanted, she was the one i wanted. Im going to give her time, but i want to know how i should approach things with her, and get her to talk to me about what she is feeling instead of hiding it. I know she still thinks about me and when i meet her, i keep her smiling.

Like i mentioned im going to see meet her for dinner sometime next week, so hopefully things will go well and i can talk to her properly. I know she isnt ready to settle down, really im in no position to either. But if i can start things off again now, hopefully 2-3 years down the line im sure i’ll marrying her.

[someguy100]

Ooh now im 25 and she is 23 soon to be 24, so its not like we are early 20’s anymore. I understand her saying she wants to do her, and i fully respect that. Although she did also mention, if thigns wernt so hard she would be with me and that she still thinks about me n everything. But should i try and ask her what the problem is?…because she wants too tell me when the time is right, but when is the time right?…im taking her out next week, i hope to have a nice meal and really talk to her and she how is really fells. Because she doesnt like to express her feelings. She is quite reserved in that sense.

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