So would you recommend telling her that I cheated on her and that I am not ready for this type of commitment all at once? She will undoubtedly hate me forever. And in your eyes, is it pretty much an impossibility to somehow tell her Im not ready for a relationship of this intensity at this point in my life, while simultaneously keeping prospects of spending our lives together promising??? Because I absolutely at some point want her to be the mother of my children but now this guilt makes me feel like that will never work(guilt from cheating). Overall its a bad situation and its taking away from the prime of my life.
