[jakie2012]

Hi April,
I will do the video thing for you once I have come to conclusion about my dilemma.

I was a little dramatic about the situation. Deep down I guess that I am really bothered about how she reacted about sudden appearance of her ex. Since they are still friends on FB, she got to be very curious about her ex’s life. She did talk to me about what happend. this ex was more a rebound from her previous relationship. this ex wanted to have a relationship but she still had feeling of her ex (that was 7 years relationship) before him. then when she was ready to have a relationship. this ex already moved to another city and moved on. hence the angry came from at that time she felt rejected. when she talked to me about sudden contact from this ex, she just said no way she would reply his email. hence my feeling was she was still angry. otherwise, she could have removed him from FB. or told him to p*** off. But the thing really bothers me was she might be still care about this ex since she is still kinda angry about him. I would think she prob was curious about this ex’s life. they haven’t been in touch for over 1.5 years, i would assume she has moved on completely.

I do believe that girls always remember ex who didnot treat then properly or ex they could have. Pls tell me I’m wrong. I think this is something really bothers me. drive me nuts about the situation. She certainly would be too stupid to jeopardize our relationship since this ex is in town for a few days. unfortunately, I’m out of the town. so I wouldnot know if anything happens.I would hope she has the self respect and self pride not meeting this ex. Otherwise, I would be utterly disappointed. If I asked her again, I would appear to be too insecure….so I’m gonna let it go unless I see anything suspicious. Sorry I seemed to bring us back to where we started…relationship!

[jakie2012]

hi April,

thanks so much for your advice.

You’re right. I was overacted. I guess I just cared too much.🙂 I was saying she was cheating. I just didn’t like that fact they were still friends on FB. the guy contacted her when he comes to the town.

Anyway, good advice. thanks so much.

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