Your advice is really bang on. I think perhaps my problem is I think too much. People say that about me all the time. Instead of enjoying and see how it is going, I try to analyse my emotion and this person. When I read my post again, I felt like I am putting each person in a “box.” But the truth is no one is that extreme. Only the degree varies. And you are absoultely right, I like this person for very good reasons which I don’t mention.
Do you think I should be more open minded about guys? I mean even if I know what I want, I would hate to be the person who judge people based on my standard and I want to fix it before letting people go.. ( I mean who am I to judge others? I am full of flaws as well)
Or do I instinctly know deep inside that it’s not going to work and everything I say is just to rationalize my instinct? It’s hard to ignore woman’s insticnt!
