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That was hard to hear, but I know I needed to hear it. :/ It is a long time, but does it matter that he’s in a country where it’s pretty hard to even approach the opposite sex?

Lastly, and I in no way want to drag this out with you, but I really do want to ask if I should have a conversation with him about it (I don’t think that will help..), or just let it go so to speak?

And what about when he returns? You indicated we will somehow settle that when he returns… What do you mean by that? Also, how available to him should I be when he gets back and (if) he wants to contact me and continue? Does that somehow indicate he wasn’t taking it serious to begin with, if he wants to continue when he returns?

THANK YOU.

[NAJIC]

I’m very sorry, and I know my post was soo detailed and everything.

I guess what I’m trying to ask, if from everything I’ve been saying, does it seem to you that he’s losing interest in me? With his communication becoming less and less? (in light of all the details I gave – probably TMI! :/ 🙂 ) How do I respond to the waning communication trend given that we hadn’t really been dating that long when he left? (and his incliniation to withdrawal when I bring-up emotional stuff)

He left in early Feb and will return in early August actually, so literally like 3 more months. :/

We have a good mutual friend, who I saw recently and I told him he’s barely contacting me now. His friend said he hasn’t heard from him in a few weeks, and that he knows he is so bored and has nothing to do (maybe not much to say!). But, that’s his friend, I’m his woman, and I feel he should be more in touch, but as a man, is it normal for him to withdraw feeling sort of purposeless?

I really just wanted a new perspective on the situation.

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