[Ladycee]

Yes, you are wasting your time. You will not be able to change him. And it is never okay for him to hurt you emotionally with the name calling. With alcohol, soon comes the physical abuse.

Listen to your inner voice on this one. I believe it is telling you to step out of the relationship. He will not like it very much, but you will grow to hate the behavior and him after a while.

[Ladycee]

With all due respect, the answer to your question (from my perspective) is YES, he is using you.

Sometimes as women (from my own experience) we put up with alot that is not part of the deal. We pay the price to have him in our lives. Believe whatever they say to us and cling to whatever little household chores they perform, all in the name of having a man.

From my experiences, there is also someone for you who will adore you and meet you halfway on the responsibilities. Dont let anyone take you for granted. Why shouldnt he ask permission to do certain things? You’re not even his wife… And as far as the controlling you by his anger, pls learn to not let it affect you. I’ve been through that as well. I’ve had some hard knocks and wish someone would have told me what I’m saying to you now. I wish you much success in making your decisions or changing some aspects of your relationship.

[Ladycee]

Had the same experience at work. One day he likes me and the next cant stand me. I recently found out he is smokes a lot of weed and that explains all the inconsistencies in his attitude and behavior. I would say…find out what his outside habits are before you get further involved. Would save a lot of heartbreak.

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