[MattMonster]

Thanks April,

That’s basically spot on. We moved too fast. I ended up just asking her outright (very nicely and in a considerate manner) if something was up because I was feeling a distance vibe (whether or not I should have done that is a different story, but it was bugging me and I felt I just had to get it off my chest). She basically told me that she felt it was moving too fast and that she needed to take a step back.

Now I just feel a little embarrassed because I don’t like to think of myself as a guy that’s clingy or needy… but a good life lesson nonetheless. I ended it off on a good note, basically thanking her for being upfront and honest and that if she ever wants to re-connect or is just wondering what I am doing to give me a shout. I also added that I didn’t mean to move things too fast at all and I felt confused because of so many mixed signals. It confused me mostly because she really did express these sorts of interests before but… who knows what’s going on, maybe she wanted to be nice or something.

Now the ball is in her court and I’ll just see (but NOT wait) if she ever does get in touch. Again, I feel kind of silly for approaching it the way I did (asking her if something was up) but… I guess I can’t turn back time. At any rate, thanks alot April.

[MattMonster]

Both in our mid 20’s…. that’s why I thought camping with her parents may have been something “big” you know?

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