April,
While waiting for a response, I have just been keeping my recent post on my mind and still really confused. So today after last nights response tried to keep my mind off of what is been bothering me. So today I decided to clean our entire apartment because we have a busy weekend and this was a great idea since I had the day off and could take my mind off of the past response.
So while cleaning and organizing I found my fiance’s old phone.
To start, in the past years I have never once looked at his phone and completely trusted him. I am a very loyal and trustworthy person. So I was deciding whether or not to look at the text messages. Something in my decided that I should, just because I was worrying and needed confirmation that I am just being sensitive and over thinking.
So I decided to look at his past messages (which were while we were dating).
I scrolled down through and noticed one person from his past that he mentioned he needed to call and catch up with. Again I told him I didn’t realize he kept in touch so often with this person, hence being this took place while we were in a long distance relationship. So while looking over the texts, I saw this girls name pop up!
I was curious just to see how the texts were between them and how often they spoke. Here it turns out they texted all the time! I was so hurt, I mean he never mentioned how close he was to this person and it made me wonder, why hold that back?!?!
I went through all of the messages. Apparently she had a boyfriend, but you could tell that they had been flirting “harmlessly” if you even want to put it that way through the messages. I was so upset when I saw this!
I knew they knew each other and went to a sporting event together. I was not happy at the time, but this was 2 years ago. But in one of the messages I saw that she said he begged her to go? I’m really confused now, I mean we are engaged now, and were dating at the time. I basically was looking at his phone when I feel like I shouldn’t have, but am upset, how do I even approach this when he comes home today?
PLEASE HELP!!!!
I am still curious and upset about the past post, and now with all this new info I just feel at a loss of what to do!!
Please anyones thoughts soon please!!!
