Believe me I have tried! I compliment him and flirt with him all the time. He likes the compliments but when it comes to the flirting he doesn’t play along. Sometimes he doesn’t respond at all. I’ve tried wearing the sexy lengerie and seduce him but he shows no interest. He brushes it off like it’s a joke and tends to respond with “What are you doing, come on stop it”. Boy doesn’t that make me feel good. We don’t have date nights because he works long hours and by the time he gets home it’s too late to do anything. (He really is working and not having an affair). I checked this out already. On the weekends he doesn’t want to do anything but play games on his computer. I tend to do my own thing with friends to keep myself occupied. What else can I do?