[claireWarner]

Is it foolish of me to think that we can possibly still be together someday? I feel like he still has interest in me since he wants to still talk to me and maybe when he gets a job or things start to get better in his life, we can fix things?

I just have such a hard time figuring out how the relationship can simply end due to stupid circumstances beyond our control. I feel like they if we work on it, we can maybe fix things?

I’m not sure if i’m being stupid here. But there was so much that we were looking forward to doing together in the summer and it honestly kills me to just throw it away. 😐

[claireWarner]

okay I reposted it in the original topic. But the original topic, i was talking about a different guy, if that matters 😎

[claireWarner]

My boyfriend recently broke up with me because a lot of unfortunate things happened to him all at once. He lost his job, has many student loans to pay, and his bandmate just quit his band (they were currently in the process of getting signed with a record deal and recording an album and with him out of the picture, this is totally ruined). He told me that his life is in shambles and he has no idea what he is going to do now. He said he needs to regroup his life before being with anyone.

When he lost his job, I helped him pay for things like food, cigarettes, etc. when I went to visit him. Other than these life issues, there were no problems with the relationship and I felt that we were very happy together. He told me that he felt guilty that I had to pay for things and deal with his issues.

When he broke up with me, he didn’t want me out of his life and wanted to still talk to me. I quickly realized that this was not a good idea because if we could not be together, I did not want to stick around as a friend. It hurt too much. He still continued to talk to me all throughout the day even though we were broken up and it was very hard for me.

When I told him that I did not wish to continue our friendship, he seemed upset/surprised that I did not wish to talk to him anymore. I feel completely broken now because I have gone two days without talking to him at all. It kills me because I wish I could talk to him but I am the one who told him we cannot be friends.

What do you think I should do about this? Is there any hope here or should I just cut him out of my life completely ?

Thank you for your help.

We are both 23 years old and have been dating for seven months.

[claireWarner]

Also we are both 23 years old and have been dating for six months, if that helps.

[claireWarner]

Thanks so much for the reply! I definitely wasn’t going to start an argument over such a small little detail but I was kind of stressed out since I didn’t know if I should text him and what texts would be worthy. However, it all solved itself since he has been initiating all the text convos for the past few days. I think he just doesn’t like random chatter for the sake of chatting and only liked to text when we actually have something to say which I can understand. Thank you!

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