Ok so she started calling him today at 5:30am and I asked was she in labor n he said no so I asked what did she want and he replied that I was meddling in their business so I’m like oh hell no if I’m meddling u need to go its over I’m done well he hasn’t left he’s still here he even asked if we could have sex I never replied like he did me so now he is in the bedroom playing a game like everything is ok I didn’t want to argue so I sent him a text message and told him that I don’t wanna do this anymore and that he needs to leave I also asked him what does he expect from me how does he expect me to be secure enough with him having a relationship with her for the sake of their child when I can’t even ask a question like why is she calling that time of morning if it was no emergency or anything whatever she had to say could’ve waited till day break I’m sure and mind u he never told me what she called for either so how do I get him to know that iam serious that it is over I can’t deal with this unless he shows me that iam the one and that I don’t have to feel threatened by her and if I do its his job to fix it she should know that he’s in a relationship with someone that he loves n respect him enough to not cause problems iam 41 years old and he is 44 and she is .in her 40s as well I feel iam way to old to be arguing and all that over a man smh !!! 🙁