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    43counselor
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    Hi April,
    My question is am I doing the right thing to stop answering all his calls. I stopped last Tuesday. I think I am doing the right thing what do you think. I just want to be on the right page. He said he needs closure I dont want to talk. I dont need closure I am giving him what he asked for he ended this relationship.

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    43counselor
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    Hi April,
    We broke up on April 13, 2013.He is 49 I am 43. I have my own home, in the process of getting a car, education. I accepted him for him not for what he didnt or did have. He called today. Im tired of being hurt and I wont answer the phone when he calls. I hope Im doing the right thing. I have to protect my heart. I am to graduate from college on May 18, 2013 with my PHD. I am so hurt I dont care about graduating now. Im going on with my life. I am very vunerable right now I feel that he will take advantage of that I cant answer the phone until I am able to talk to him without sounding weak. Im hurt by the words that he said, he told me to live my life. He told me I will be over him in two days. We were together for 14 months. He havent called me this much in a long time. Last month he would call and talk to me for 15 minutes and then tell me that he will call back and I wouldnt hear from him until the next day or 3 or 4 days later. I stopped calling him. Im tired I have gave up on men.

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