[matias1984]

I greatly appreciate the advice, you pretty much confirmed what I already thought, I know I’m being impatient.
I do have another question though, You had said, “try for a second date.” I have done that & she said yes. Well, when it came time for me to head over to where she lives, she said she had forgot & had said she would work that night, she tried to make changes but couldn’t back out. Now she asked me if I’d take a rain check & said she felt bad, that it wasn’t fair to me if I came all that way & she was working until late. Now I’ve asked a couple times over the course of a couple months, ( by the way, I don’t ask repeatedly ) but the couple times I’ve asked, it seems like she has excuses (usually job related.)
So I kinda feel like she doesn’t wanna go again.
Does that sound right? Or am I just over thinking it? Should I keep trying to set something up? If so, how long should I keep trying?
She said she wants to see me again. I know I need to be patient, and I’m trying to be. I just don’t really know what to think at this point. Any help would be appreciated & thanks again for your previous advice.

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