[boxjocky]

A couple days ago, she came over to fill out a job application online for the new jobs me and her wanted to apply for. While she was writing her application, i was hovering over her to make sure she was doing it right. She seemed nervous and clumsy. She kept mis-spelling words or messing up. She kept giggling and going “ughhh, im so stupid”! She asked me if i can spell a certain word, and i laughed and said “really”? She said “is this how you spell it”? And she spelled “douche” and laughed at me.

After we finished our applications, we looked at our old yearbook. She showed me her ex bf, then started pointing out guys she use to have a crush on, saying how cute they were, how she had a mad crush on him. Again, i don’t know if she was trying to make me jealous or not.

We went to the job application place to turn them in, but it turns out they were closed, so we decided to go back tomorrow morning. That night, she texted me saying “i can’t go tomorrow something came up”. After that night (5 days), we haven’t texted each other.

Yesterday at work, i saw her and said “hey whatsup”? She looked at me and said “hey”. She seemed upset / pissed off at me. She didn’t talk to me that day, she seemed like she was keeping her distants. I wanted to ask her if she wanted to go bike riding next week and have dinner, but since she was acting all weird, i didn’t.

Today, i see her at work again, and i don’t really know if i should ask her “if everything’s okay”? Or if she’s upset at me for not making a move yet? And I’m not sure if i should ask her if she wants to do something this week.

[boxjocky]

Thanks for the response April,

I completely agree with you, but the main reason why i didn’t ask her out on the get go is because she said she wasn’t looking for a relationship. When me and her hung out for the first time, and she met my parents, and we went to go watch a movie and have dinner, she flat out said “Is this a date”? I said “Huh? Why? I don’t think so”. She said “Oh okay, good, i dont want your parents thinking it’s a date. I’m not ready to date anybody yet since i just broke up with my bf”.

A friend of mine really liked her and they hung out one night and saw a movie. I believe it was there first night hanging out, and at the end of the night, he said “i really like you”, and she said “how, you barely know me, I’m sorry but i don’t like you in that way”. When she told me that my friend asked her out, and he got rejected, i wasn’t really phased by it.

She told me “I don’t understand why guys can’t just be friends and not assume its dating”. Of course, this was 3-4 months ago, so it was when i just started getting to know her. If she didn’t just breakup with her bf when i met her, i would’ve asked her on a date. Her and that guy barely hangout now because she finds it a bit awkward since that incident with them at the movies.

Me and her hang out a lot more, and we always seem to hangout 1 on 1, never in a group. She invited me dancing this week with her friends, so it’s a chance for me to meet her friends. Isn’t the flirting, the signs she’s giving me, a sign of “liking” a little more then a normal friend would?

She knows i love Disneyland, and i have an annual pass, and i want to surprise her and her little brother with 2 annual passes, so me and her can go, and she can take her little bro sometimes. But i don’t know if that might be to much…? Hope to hear back, thanks!

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