I am trying to be less insecure, I know it isn’t helping us but think its getting better in that respect. I am only insecure with her, in no other aspect of my life, and with the break up I know she’s had (maybe still having) doubts so its hard to put out of my mind. I am trying to deal with it but any suggestions?
With regards sex, I try to seduce her, and I am unselfish when it comes to things like that really, I enjoy making sure she is pleasured. We have explored and learnt what we like in each other as we explored ourselves with each other too. The issue is she doesn’t seem to have a sex drive anymore. If I try to seduce her or flirt etc she just doesn’t seem interested and it seems to make her even less interested.
Is it the other problems we have causing this? Do I keep trying or give her space?
