[Planson]

Yes, I have asked by phone as well as in person:

1st time: I listed my availability for the week, she replied: “Maybe. Let me double check my work schedule when I get home!”.

-She did not send anything else after that. When we worked together days later I avoided her since I took that as a ‘no’. I saw a frown on her face. The following time we worked together is the day she came to me and said that we should go to a movie together. I responded positively, but nothing was scheduled.

2nd: The work outing that I took her to. These were my friends since she was new.

3rd: I asked her in person, and we decided on a time. I sent her a message a day prior to confirm if she was still able. She responded on the day we were to meet: “Love the cat! (a picture I sent her during the week) Bad news: [name of one of our bosses] called me in early than my set schedule, sorry!”.

4th: I planned going to a sports game in 3 weeks with my immediate family members for my birthday, and I invited her by text. She didn’t respond until I asked in person. She texted: “Hey! Sorry I am not gonna be able to join. I’m sorry :/”.

5th: She responded same day saying how exhausted she was: “It depends. Honestly, my body and mind is exhausted. I can barely stand. We can see, not sure yet though, sorry :/”

6th: I invited her in person to an event that I’m going to in over a month. She said that she was already going to be on tour in order to watch a friend who is performing during that time.

7th & 8th: I asked in person about her general availability, and she got frustrated both times.

-After that I’ve felt discouraged to ask again.
-I always text first, and she has yet to ask me.
-Recently while we were at work, we briefly talked as I was leaving. We were being playful and I said that she is no fun. She said it’s not fun having 2 jobs. I said “I’ve been nice, I’ve left you alone”. She smiled, commented on my shirt that I was wearing, walked off smiling as she went to deal with customers.

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