[quan_]

Thank you, that really gave me a clear understanding, and that explains why she always shows more attention when I show less attention. I’ve heard many expert say the same thing you said so there must be truth to it. I will start bettering myself and focusing more on my own happiness, and less about her.

[quan_]

I want her to be my girlfriend again. We are on the friend level now but I don’t know what to do. I give her all the attention in the world, make her feel special everyday, but it’s like all my actions are going nowhere. She rarely texts me first and I have to initiate every conversation, and sometimes she replies back hours later. Its like she only notices me when I go a few days without texting her, then she will text me first trying to hold a conversation. Then when I start texting she goes right back to being distant again. I don’t understand this. But I want her back in my life no matter how difficult she may be, I’m willing to deal with that. And also she knows how I feel about her even though we are only friends.

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