[Berb]

we are both 16, but i know sexual stuff shouldnt be even thought about right now. but it just bothers me for in the future and keeping the relationship moving.

im probably over reacting and shouldnt even be worrying but i cant prioritize my thoughts, i have to think of everything at once and i always get stressed out.

[Berb]

ok we are dating now for about a month and 1 week now but i just have questions becuase i have absolulty no idea what im doing ive never had a girlfriend and i also feel insecure.

1 is i haven’t kissed her yet and i want too but the only reason is i have no idea how to kiss. like not the setting or stuff or when i mean like literally the mechanics of it where the lips go how much pressure.

another is that she not really found out but heard that i masturbate and she said it was disgusting and she never has, i believe her because she was pretty serious when she said it is disgusting. anyway the reason this comes to my attention is that since she has never felt the feeling or anything i feel like she will go with someone else like years from now to get the feeling. another thing is she does not like to be touched like at all barely any. she will let me hug on her most of the time and stuff but she doesn’t like to cuddle. so with that in mind idk if know i should and am going to wait for the sexual stuff but it just bothers me in the back of my mind like should i kinda slowly caress her boobs and thats it or something after a few more months or should i just wait until she starts wanting to do anything. i dont want her leaving me because i cant provide what she needs. or should i just not worry about it at all. because people at my school are like having oral sex and stuff and it makes me feel like i would have to worry about that. but since she isnt into that stuff yet idk if i should ease her into it even if i have no experience or just wait for her to do it but by then she would have left bec i cant provide what she needs. i dont need the sexual stuff and can wait until college or after but i just dont want her leaving me becuase i dont please her.

like i said i have completely absolulty no idea what im doing for long term relationship thinking.

[Berb]

what if she is the one who is always asking for us to skype and talk and stuff?

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