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Thanks for the help. 🙂 I swear, usually I’m not a bumbling idiot about these sorts of things. Some ladies, I guess. 🙂

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OK.

I think I do want to ask her out. Do you think it’s too soon after her break up to ask?

Since we’re already buddies (lunch, after work drinks and such) am I too deep in the F.Zone and should I not bother?

If she says no, should I try to back off and not even be buddies? 🙂

Uggggh, I always like a sure sign and I have none.

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Hello April,

Thanks for the reply. 🙂 You’re right, I’m not clear at all. I want to go on a date with her and just see how it would go.Then again, things are good now so maybe I shouldn’t go for it. I always think when you date someone for that long, it takes a lonnng time to get over that person. Maybe i’ll ask her in the summer? As every guy ever said, I’d hate to ask, then get rejected and it be weird and awkward. But, sometimes in life you have to get out there. Usually I’m never nervous like this about a gal. Most of the time this like this happen rather organically for me.

I told the person I didn’t like her because I hate awkwardness and I like the way things are. I just found it odd this girl said that she thought I liked her but literally nothing changed at all, which i was happy about.

The only caveat is I know you should never be friends with someone if you want to date them, but since all our teams work so closely, it’s kind of impossible.

BTW, 27.

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