[LadyTremaine]

Thanks April, I do appreciate your advice. We are both older, I am in my 30s and he is in his 40s, I suppose that may be part of the reason things were “rushed”, so to speak. I am more than ready to settle down and start a family, and I realize that my time is limited in that regard. It’s sad because he’s a great guy in all other aspects, but you’re right, this is a behavior problem for him and me telling him “don’t do it” isn’t going to change the behavior. I know that ingrained behavior takes years of professional therapy to correct, plus the person has to actually WANT to change, his actions show that he does not.

I have another question for you: if he really doesn’t want to be monogamous with me, then why did he ask and insist on being in an exclusive relationship with me? Was it so that he could have me all to himself? If he wanted to be free to date around, or even if he felt as though I wasn’t worth committing to, it doesn’t make sense that he would be the one to insist on an exclusive relationship.

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