[gucci13]

Alright so here’s what happened 🙂 i don’t know if i handled it just fine but i did my best.

We had dinner in a fancy restaurant. and both of her parents were wearing glasses, and they look younger than their age seriously. then the dad started asking questions about me..like where did i grew up, studied, hobbies , past girlfriends(i actually don’t have any), bad habits, etc…

and his dad invited me outside, we talked about how life comes so fast and he gave me some advice..i really wanted to take notes but i will look weird. (his dad really gives excellent advises) and one of his words of wisdom was he’s going to beat the hell out of me if i cheat or hurt her daughter and i was cool with that, i even recommended him things that i will do to me if i go bad. and we laughed. he was a really cool guy, a very wise person and open minded.

i also talked to her mom, her mom was also a nice person to talk to, very supportive and she even asked me if they can help me support my sisters, but of course i said there is no need to and i can handle it, and its already a big help that their daughter is there for me when i feel down. she smiled and held my hands. but offering some help really touched me…if it wasn’t for the table between us i would have hugged her.

and its already 1am when we went home, my girlfriend took her parents home(its been 6 months since they last saw each other so i let them have some family time) i got back at my girlfriends house and i fell asleep on the couch..i think that event really drained my energy. and on the morning my gf woke me up for breakfast and she said to me that she was really happy and she told me it was her plan all along(i knew it :geek: ) and she was expecting that i’m not going to come because of my anxiety and she was even prepared for that.(she even have this plan to drag me from my tropical island to the US if she have to.) we are laughing the whole morning. and there i knew it..that i have made a good decision and that this girl, i think she’s the one. yes we are like miles apart but i will find a way that someday we are going to get together.

i really don’t know what her parents think about me, but basing on how my girlfriend was acting the day after we met her parents, i guess i’m in a good light. after my sister finished college i’m really going to cut that distance between us.

and thank you April for the excellent advice. your advice really put my feet on that plane..thank you again.

[gucci13]

i guess you are right. i must do this…i think they are not bad people anyway because my girlfriend is really kind and understanding. And to her to be like that means that her parents are probably good parents.

i think i’m just scared of being always different, because when i was a kid we are really poor and studying in a private school(thanks to my scholarship) is like being a duck in group of swans. i remember my classmates back then were son’s and daughters of lawyers,doctors, politicians etc. and since they don’t like being friends with a boy like me, i was always sitting alone at the back of the class and drawing in my notebook. and i think those experiences really got into me, that’s why i’m like this when meeting this ‘sophisticated’ kind of people.

anyway my flight is tomorrow. i’ll post here what happened in our meeting may it be good or bad. to be honest i’m still anxious. i’m bringing some of the children’s books i’m worked on so that i can show it to them. good luck to me.

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