[Blondie999]

I’m 31, so yes, I’m at that point in my life that I don’t wanna be dating anymore. I wanna settle down and maybe start a family in couple of years. The guy divorced his wife not long before we met and they also have a son, which has had a big impact on our relationship. After six months of dating, the guy told me it’s better that we stay just friends because he’s not ready for a relationship. He told me this by texting and I was quite upset. For two months we didn’t have any contact and I was actually getting over him and ready to move on. Then he asked me out for coffee and I just couldn’t say no. We met couple of time “just as friends” but neither of us couldn’t deny the chemistry we had, so it ended being something more. He doesn’t really talk about his feelings and that gets me confused a lot. When I thought things were not going so well with us about a year ago, all of a sudden he started talking about marriage 😕

He has had lot of problems with his family (serious illness etc.) and I think he has been quite depressed. I’ve tried to be patient and I do hope we can make it work.

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