I know I screwed up badly by doing these things for him, but I thought I was being a good friend. He says that I am and I quote him “a soiling fucking brat”. Because I want what I can’t have. He told me to deal with it and learn how to control my emotions and just accept the fact that he doesn’t like me like that. I know I did this to myself. He says I need to apologize for my actions(I also spazzed on him at times) and that until he’s not mad anymore, not to talk to him. I have just messed up everything.
So I tried to move on in a friendly way by telling him that nothing is working out and that we need to move on. H claims that I am ‘abandoning him” like everybody else supposedly does. He said I’m a bitch and that I hurt him. Moving on is what is best. Unfortunately I did not give all the details. I have a bit if his belongings, and file is unemployment while he is out of the country. I know silly me. At the time I thought I was doing him a favor, but now that we haven’t really spoken in weeks I don’t need to keep helping someone out who can’t be considerate enough to communicate. What do I do?
So I told him I wanted to move on and he snapped back at me and said that I really ‘hurt him’ and are ‘abandoning’ him like everybody else does. How am I hurting him? He’s not even in the country right now! He also said I was selfish, which I can understand (especially when it comes to my emotions and I don’t consider others). But like you said, he liked me and wanted a no commitment relationship, but how am I hurting him?
