[kenkayhen]

You’re right, I do have a lot of trouble with just being social and coming up with flirty comebacks. He just makes me so nervous. Your advice is really making me realize what I need to do, and would have helped a lot, but now someone else is playing in his spot 🙁 so no alone time for us I guess. Maybe I’ll get another chance in the future. Thanks again 🙂

[kenkayhen]

April,
So my question is concerning the same guy in my previous question. The other day he asked me to play a gig with him where it would only be the two of us from our section and other people in the band (mostly because some of the older people had prior commitments). He also asked me to give him a ride to the place. How do I utilize this time to my advantage and connect with him? I’m really quite shy and insecure when it comes to being alone with guys and I’m scared it will be awkward when we drive over..
Thank you! 🙂

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