My visa expired and that is why I had to return. We wanted to get married within the time I have been there but the visa did not allow for it. We have since decided that he would come to me so that we can get married in my country, thereby have the ability for me to move to him permanently. The process is a long one however, and for now it seems as if he will only be able to get here in January next year. What worries me is the fact that he mentions this only in passing, never making the effort anymore to talk about our plans in detail. I do realise that this is also a trying experience for him, and I do not want to put pressure on him but at the same time, not openly and honestly talking about our plans leaves me to wonder if he is really committed to our relationship. If I jump to conclusions I will only push him away, and at the moment he seems distant enough. Do I give him space? Tell him I’ll wait until he is ready to talk?
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