A few years ago, a girl that i have always found attractive asked me out. After a few dates, we seemed to be hitting it off well (flirty texts, she cooked me dinner, make outs). To make a long story short, she eventually ended up giving me the “My ex really hurt me, and im not ready to date” speech. However, within a few days i saw she was dating somebody else. After i heard about this, i deleted her from facebook, and didnt speak to her for 3 years. Recently, this girl has come back into my life, because my best friend dates her best friend and we have established contact again. A few months ago, she asked me out, and we immediately hit things off again, or so i thought. After having, what i consider a great date, we only texted once or twice the remainder of that week (which she initiated). When i asked her out that following week she said YES, but then the day we were supposed to go out, she cancelled on me at the last minute, and i decided that it was over once again. Another month and a half went by, and i saw on her facebook that she had been on a few dates. Then she started to once again get really active in liking my facebook posts and we even started texting each other songs to listen to (we both love the same music). One night when i was on vacation, she sent me a picture of herself and said that she wished she was there. The other day on my birthday, not only did she text me all day, but she made a post on HER facebook wall that made it seem like we were together, telling me happy birthday. Later that night, she also sent me a naked picture of herself along with the follow up to go out with her that weekend. I obviously said yes. As that week went sloooowly by, i noticed that one of her girl friends on facebook said “cant wait to see you this weekend”. Assuming that now our date was off, i choose not to make a fool of myself and ask if we were still on for our date. That weekend, she posted a few pictures of her and her friend together, but never did i get a text saying she had to cancel, or even worse never got a reschedule for another time. Its been 2 weeks since ive heard from her now, and she seems to be not liking my posts anymore on facebook…but i know this whole process will repeat itself eventually based off of her pattern. I know she has trust issues with guys, and openly admits to going after guys that she cant have. I feel i have been very nonchalant in my feelings for her, so i dont think she knows how crazy i am about her, but am i doing something wrong? Does this girl like me, or my main question is..does it seem she just likes the attention from me?
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