[quote=”April Masini”]Got it. Thank you.
In general, when a guy’s words and behavior don’t match up — for instance, he says he wants to marry you, but doesn’t ever meet you in person — trust his behavior. So, the fact that he hasn’t made the trip to see you in 2 years, indicates he’s not interested in anything serious, no matter what he says.
Second, when it comes to LDRs, which are different than in town relationships, if a guy you meet online hasn’t made a real life date within three months, you should move on. He’s not that into you. 😳
I think you should realize that you’re not lost at all — you’re disappointed. You want him to be a guy who wants you and will do what it takes to date you, and he’s not that guy. My advice is to move on and find someone who you can date in person, and get to know beyond the internet and phone. 😉
I hope that helps.
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To be honest, we agreed since the beginning that we won’t meet soon at all, it’s not really easy for us. Both of our families are conservative and meeting anytime is not an option. We thought meeting few months before he proposes would be the best.
He was 19 when we first met, and he started working few months after we met so he can save up for himself and us I think. So the meeting is not an issue to be honest. I just don’t get why he is not honest about the real reason behind what he does, and why he keeps breaking up.
He did send gifts btw, so did I. For birthdays for example.
