Thank you for the advice, I understand that I have the option to close with her and have thought about it many many times, but I cannot give up on her that easy. We exchanged texts recently and for the first time she began to get emotional. She told me that being rude to her was definitely no way to win her back, and that we would probably not be in a relationship again. And then she went on to point out specific examples that she was upset with me about, leading up to the realization that she was mostly upset with me during our time together because she believes I did not put enough effort in spending more time with her. Her schedule and my schedule did not allow ample time for us -in her opinion. But I spent as much time as possible with her! And honestly, It wasn’t until the last 4 months of our relationship that she allowed me to come over and hang out with her and her child/stay the night with them both. So in light of this new information It’s obvious we did not communicate well with each other, I had no idea she felt this way until now. There is a very big part of me that cannot give up, I would love the opportunity to build a stronger relationship with her if she would be interested in giving it another shot. There is also a smaller part of me that says to cut my losses and move on- forget her. I am waiting until next week to talk again- any help/advice would be great.
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