April: I am 33 years old, she just turne 24. We have been engaged for 3 years, there is no wedding date yet – mainly this is because of the money involved. Neither of us have alot of money, surprisingly, this is not an issue between us really. I don’t lack a long term plan to address this situation, I am student in a university program that is quite lengthy however. Also, she deeply feels the want to have a child with me, despite our significant interpersonal issues and current lack of money. Thanks for your time and perspective.