[Babsy84]

I get it. I do. I have found quite a few things to do in this time. I meant more about his response and what I could do next. Believe me, I have been keeping busy and proactive with a good solid group of my closest friends. And as much as I express concerns on here, it’s because I try to dial it back in ‘real’ life. 🙂 You know a lot. I just want to learn some things. If that makes sense. With nothing but respect for you and what you do!

[Babsy84]

Oh goodness, I feel so needy. 😉 What do I do with this?! Hahaha!

[Babsy84]

He replied that I made his morning better. I suppose it’s a positive step.

[Babsy84]

I just don’t want to lose him. But it is a rut. I have sent him the message. I do love this man. He was good to me and my son, it’s a hard thing to think about.

[Babsy84]

And thank you so much for the advice and help. I appreciate the no nonsense. 🙂

[Babsy84]

There are tons of things to compliment. What I really meant to say is that I fear the text. Lol! Seems so silly. It feels like the beginning.

[Babsy84]

Also, is sooner better than later in this case? I heard from him on Saturday.

[Babsy84]

I don’t know why but this seems harder than it should. Perhaps I’m just nervous. I used to compliment him all the time, I can’t think of amything now.

[Babsy84]

I do so like that approach more than just cutting the strings. And I do hate to be a bother, but how do I go about communicating with him when it was he who wanted the space? How do I comfort him through this because believe me, I do want to. But I don’t want to seem like I can’t give him the space he wants. I just don’t want to lose this. It is worth fighting for or else he would have just left.

[Babsy84]

It was a bit of a ramble, my mistake. We are divorced. And honestly we started dating before they were finalized. I had made it a point to tell him we could wait. Let him and I take the time if need be. I am 31 and he is 28. But our maturity meets in the middle I guess. I had mentioned to him about that an he said he was afraid he would lose me to someone else. We moved in together after 6 months but I immediately deployed for 4 months so we didn’t really live together til I got back. And the new house is base housing. Something I was never fond of but because of him wanting to get out of the military I thought it was the best bet. So we did it. It’s a 2 year lease.

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