He has been in college for a little over 3 years now. He was in the army for 4 years also. But he does act differently this time. Before we would only text like come over? And usually yes and that would be the only time we talked. He holds my hand and keeps his arm around me in front of his friends. We don’t really go out our work schedules don’t work out to our advantage alot of the time. He doesn’t call me his girlfriend but his family does and he never tells them no we ain’t. I actually want a relationship we are so similar it’s unreal. I just feel like he is scared of commitment. His best friend told me his last relationship ended horrible I don’t know any of the details. Should I be completely honest with my feelings towards him or wait? I haven’t had the best experiences with guys so I don’t know how to take a good guy.