We have been together for 6 months … for the most part her chilliness is the only issue … my gf is the type of person who is very straight forward and doesn’t sugar coat anything. That took me some time to get used to. She can be a bit of a bulley but she claims shes that way becasue of what she’s been through with her last 2 marriages. Sometimes her youngest daughter who is 12 can be hard to deal with … as for my ex … we were young … I started dating her when i was 17 and it lasted 5 years …