In replying to each of your point, number one, I meant that I gave him my number when he asked for it that night so there is that. Number two, you’re right, I knew it but I chose to ignore it. And third, I knew that the talk was a tricky situation but I was in this weird state of limbo and needed to figure out what was going on. I was happy with where we were so maybe I should have let it go but then again maybe I would have been hurt more a month from now when he realized things on his own. I really appreciate the advice because it is an opinion that I needed to hear. Because although you are telling me not to wait around, you aren’t exactly saying “There’s no chance in hell that’s ever gonna happen now” which is one of the responses I’ve gotten from other people. I will keep my options open and accept advances from other guys because I know that that’s what is best for me. But I’m still stuck in this friend situation and I’m not sure how to handle it. I’m sure with time I will be able to move on completely but for now, I’m just forcing myself through every conversation.
