[Taven03]

I see, that is a lot better but still being a widow is a big deal.

[Taven03]

I will try that thanks

[Taven03]

You should be mad… But also keep in mind some of the following. (sorry if this sounds awkward I rewrote this and now it sounds weird)
It sounds like she might be having trust issues. I think things will be alright with time… Remember the ex card is a big thing with both men and women. She might have been slut shaming but the underlying cause is that you are his ex and you have right to be mad at her. If you can build up that trust again with her and find ways to reassure her that before anything happens between you and him, that you will inform her. Also try to make a girl’s night and leave the guys behind.

[Taven03]

I know I am not April but is there a reason to jump into a relationship? If you really miss him and think being in a relationship feels right. Tell him you would like to go on a trail date to see if that is something that you want… Otherwise you guys might just be really good friends, my best friend is a girl. I miss her and everything but I can’t see her as my girlfriend either.

[Taven03]

Alright, you need to move on. Even if he still has feelings for you… This can only go badly. He didn’t just lie to you, you are his mistress! And you didn’t even know it.

It won’t be easy but delete his phone number get rid of things that reminds you of him and move on.
I know I am not April but I hope this helps you.

[Taven03]

It sounds like a fifty fifty split to me. He might just want to be friends with benefits… But the last part of your message makes me think he might be developing feelings for you. The hard part about this type of thing is what type of guy is he. In the beginning in seems like he just wants to be friends with benefits but seeing his mom and hanging out with you and your daughter hints at something more.

I know I am not April but I am bored. Lol

[Taven03]

I know I am not April. But my advice is to avoid talking about you exs. Do your best to reassure her that you are only interested in her. If that doesn’t work. I hate to say it but she might be to insecure to be in a relationship right now. As far as being stuck in the past… Is there any other reason besides the photos to make your girlfriend believe you are living in the past? Try to prevent the spiral into non logical things. Keep this issue out of her mind until she feels more secure. Then talk about again.

[Taven03]

This is tricky… I would delete all photos of your ex’s as long as it is not a group photo. As for the diary… I think your girlfriend is way too insecure. She is scared of you ex’s. Which makes sense but you should not have to delete you past to make her happy. You needed a way to comfort her without getting rid of some precious memories.
Good luck!

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