Hello, your response was something I needed to read. This is exactly what I was telling myself in the back of my head but I was allowing my feelings to cloud that. I know for a fact he is not mature enough for a relationship. I had so much hope in him but he let me down too many times and you are correct I will just let him focus on taking care of our kids and leave our relationship where its at now which is being co-parents. Thank you so much for this advice.