Thanks for your response! I am 26 and he’s just turned 28. I typically am not very focused on the future marriage/father thing but his roommate (who partakes in the same behaviors regularly) got engaged recently and just found out his fiancé is pregnant and so the future has been a huge part of all of our conversations recently. I know he’s cutting back more and more the longer we’ve known each other but I am truly uncertain if that’s enough.