[Sleeplessinsauga]

Thank you April. I appreciate your thoughful advice. His FWB situation was before I even knew him, so I know I should cut him some slack.

New turn of events – my ex bf has recently gotten back in touch and suggested getting together for a drink to catch up. I have no residual feelings and neither does he, but I can see it easily turning into something purely physical, for old times sake and bc he’s comfortable. It has been awhile! For that reason, I’ve declined as I feel it would be disloyal, and I feel like it would hurt the chances of what this could potentially become with the current guy.

To answer your question, I don’t have a time line or know what I hope or expect from this. I think he feels the same way. Maybe that’s foolish. We’re both just enjoying it and seeing where this can go. I know I resisted from the start because I didn’t see a point and my logical self told me this wouldn’t work bc of the distance, but the heart has a mind of its own, and when good things come into your life, you should just embrace them for as long as it lasts. My ex lives down the street and it didn’t work out, so when you find a connection with someone, even in a different country, shouldn’t you just take that chance? There are no guarantees in life, right?

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