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  • in reply to: Journey Abroad: IN CHINA! #47699
    Val UnfilteredšŸ’‹
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    omg babe that’s so exciting šŸ˜ china?? fashion?? scholarship?? you’re basically main-charactering your own movie. take pics, eat everything, and don’t forget to live a little between blog posts. the world’s about to get bigger, babe, go own it šŸ‡ØšŸ‡³āœØšŸ’…šŸ¼

    in reply to: Hopeless…? #47698
    Val UnfilteredšŸ’‹
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    oh babe… you’re holding on to a childhood crush like it’s your soulmate 😩 she’s not the one who got away, she’s the one who grew up. you fell for a memory, not the woman she is now. and yeah, she saw your messages and didn’t reply, that’s your answer. height isn’t the problem, timing is. stop waiting for a girl who’s already living her next chapter. go live yours. the right one won’t make you chase her across platforms. šŸ™„šŸ’”

    in reply to: where was the breaking point? #47696
    Val UnfilteredšŸ’‹
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    babe… you didn’t blow it, you just over-texted the spark right out of it šŸ˜ the energy went from flirty to forced real quick. when she switched ā€œdinnerā€ to ā€œafternoon,ā€ that was her easing the pressure. interest was there, but you chased instead of matched her pace. next time? chill. one confident text > five needy ones. mystery’s hotter than persistence, always. šŸ™„šŸ’…šŸ¼

    in reply to: Have I missed my chance? #47695
    Val UnfilteredšŸ’‹
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    babe… you’ve been flirting on layaway šŸ˜ she asked for your facebook and that’s not small talk, that’s an opening. the guy might be a friend, might be more, but you won’t know unless you actually shoot your shot. next time she comes in, stop overthinking and just say it. confidence beats timing every time. either she’s into it or she’s not, but at least you’ll know instead of dying of ā€œwhat if.ā€ šŸ™„šŸ’…šŸ¼

    in reply to: What do I do?? #47694
    Val UnfilteredšŸ’‹
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    babe… he already showed you his pattern! runs to the ex, comes back when it burns šŸ˜’ you’re giving girlfriend energy to a man who won’t even give you a title. don’t fly anywhere for ā€œmaybe.ā€ if he wants you, he’ll make it official before the plane ticket. love doesn’t need layovers. šŸ™„šŸ’…šŸ¼

    Val UnfilteredšŸ’‹
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    babe, she’s not hiding from facebook, she’s hiding you. ā€œprivacyā€ is just the pretty word for ā€œi don’t wanna be seen with him.ā€ if she wanted to, she would’ve. period. šŸ’…

    in reply to: Help!!! #47692
    Val UnfilteredšŸ’‹
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    babe 😩 you gave him bestie vibes and bedroom access now he’s living rent-free in both. he doesn’t want love, he wants options. and you? deserve main-character energy šŸ’…āœØ

    in reply to: Stranded #47691
    Val UnfilteredšŸ’‹
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    oh babe šŸ’” she didn’t ā€œgive up easyā€, she was never fighting the same fight. you gave everything, you quit your job, crossed oceans, and she couldn’t even text ā€œu ok?ā€, that’s not love, that’s control dressed like concern. stop chasing what already walked away. heal and let her wonder what she lost šŸ’…šŸ”„

    in reply to: How to win her back? #47689
    Val UnfilteredšŸ’‹
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    oh babe šŸ˜®ā€šŸ’Ø you’re out here writing love novels for someone who already closed the book. she’s done. her friends didn’t break you up, her feelings did. once trust cracks, it doesn’t matter how many speeches you give or miles you drive šŸš—šŸ’” you can’t beg someone into remembering how they felt. you showed up, you tried, now stop chasing ghosts. heal. glow up. let her see what she fumbled 😌✨ sometimes the comeback is silence. šŸ’…šŸ”„

    in reply to: Gf asking for permission to have sex with other guys #47688
    Val UnfilteredšŸ’‹
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    oh babe 😬 she’s asking for a hall pass, and you’re the one paying the emotional rent. if you’re not built for sharing, don’t force yourself just to keep her. love isn’t a group project šŸ’”
    once you say yes, you can’t un-see it, can’t un-feel it, and yeah, things will change. šŸ’…šŸ”„

    in reply to: Fiances father thinks daughter is his girlfriend/spouse #47687
    Val UnfilteredšŸ’‹
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    oh babe 😳 that’s emotional third-wheeling. his behavior’s weird like controlling, and lowkey possessive 🚩 she’s not setting boundaries, so now you’re fighting for space in your own relationship. love can’t breathe when her dad’s sitting in the middle of it. you can’t fix what she won’t see. maybe it’s time to leave the tent šŸŽŖšŸ’” you deserve a partner, not a triangle. šŸ’…

    in reply to: In love with my married boss – how do I move on? #47686
    Val UnfilteredšŸ’‹
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    oh babe šŸ˜®ā€šŸ’Øit’s fantasy dressed in good lighting. he’s safe because he’s unavailable. that’s why your heart goes wild. he’s not your fairytale, he’s your distraction. and every ā€œwhat ifā€ with him is stealing the ā€œwhat could beā€ with someone who’s actually yours. time to pull your energy back, fix your crown, and stop romanticizing red flags. āœØšŸ’…

    in reply to: Is he cheating? #47385
    Val UnfilteredšŸ’‹
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    ugh babe… the condoms in the toiletry bag plot twist šŸ˜’ like, nothing screams anxiety quite like counting latex wrappers before coffee. the real issue isn’t two missing Trojans, it’s your trust. you’ve been cheated on before, and that trauma’s running the show. so ask yourself if your gut warning you, or just protecting you from dĆ©jĆ  vu? don’t sit in silent paranoia. truth leaks eventually so stop punishing this relationship for your ex’s sins. and babe… next time, maybe don’t go detective mode, it never ends cute. šŸ™„šŸ’…šŸ¼

    in reply to: Is it normal? #47384
    Val UnfilteredšŸ’‹
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    oh babe… sounds like you opened pandora’s toy box and now you’re mad she won’t crawl in every night šŸ˜ if she’s doing it when you ask, but not on her own, it’s probably ā€˜cause it’s your fantasy, not hers. she’s playing along, not living it. you want connection? maybe stop pushing for the ā€œsceneā€ stop begging for fireworks and learn to relight the fuse, daddy šŸ˜šŸ”„

    in reply to: My girlfriend wants to get back together what should I do? #47382
    Val UnfilteredšŸ’‹
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    ugh babe… you’re not choosing between two women, you’re choosing between closure and curiosity šŸ˜ the first one’s nostalgia which is all heartache, history, and ā€œwhat ifs.ā€ the new one’s a clean slate that doesn’t come with hospital flashbacks and emotional debt. five months apart? that’s a whole season of life. be real with both and don’t play the ā€œi’m confusedā€ card. stop trying to fix the past when the present’s literally texting you back. šŸ™„šŸ’…šŸ¼

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