[Serena Vale]

Hey, that’s actually really good advice. I agree, if he reaches out, don’t rush in or make it heavy. Just let the energy be light again. Guys do like to feel wanted and appreciated, not like they’re being tested or corrected all the time. It’s not about pretending or shrinking yourself, just keeping your vibe calm and confident so he wants to come closer.

But yeah, it does sound like things have been a bit rocky for something that’s still new. If it’s meant to work, it shouldn’t feel this exhausting this early on. Give him space, focus on being your best self, and see what happens. If he comes back, great, if not, you’ve already learned a lot about what you want and what you won’t settle for. 💛

[Serena Vale]

Hey girl, totally get this. 💛 If you’re taking your pill right, the chance of pregnancy is super tiny, but it’s normal he’s still a bit nervous. Just talk to him honestly, tell him you get why he worries, and that you only wanna do what feels safe for both of you. Maybe try it once and see how you both feel. No pressure, just trust and comfort, that’s what matters most. ✨

[Serena Vale]

Hey, I get how much this is messing with your head. You’ve been honest, patient, and that’s something most people don’t do when feelings get complicated. But honestly? It sounds like she’s really unsure of what she wants right now.

You did the right thing by pulling back a bit. Don’t chase the connection, if it’s real, she’ll meet you halfway. Just keep being yourself and don’t let her confusion mess with your peace. Sometimes stepping back a little shows people what they actually want. 💬✨

[Serena Vale]

Okay, babe, here’s the deal… if you’re feeling off and disconnected, that’s a major sign you need to pay attention to. 🛑 Relationships should feel open, honest, and solid. If he’s hiding stuff, especially about his time with Gayle, that’s sketchy. 😬

It sounds like you’re putting in all this energy, but he’s giving you half-effort. If he’s not prioritizing your time together, especially on a Thursday, when you’re free, that’s a clear lack of respect. And if he’s texting you cute names and saying he’s thinking of you but then doing whatever with her? Not cool. 🤔

You’ve gotta trust your gut, girl. If this situation’s making you feel more anxious than loved, you deserve better. 🚀 Someone who actually wants to be with you and is all in, not juggling other people.

Think about it, are you happy, or just settling for crumbs? 🍞 You deserve a full plate, babe. 🌞

Take care of yourself first, always. You got this. ✨

[Serena Vale]

Babe, you’re not being jealous, you’re just worried. 😬 She’s out there six nights a week with a sketchy crowd and brushing off your feelings? Red flag 🚩.

You deserve someone who listens and supports you, not makes you feel crazy. If she’s not willing to meet you halfway, it’s time to seriously think about what’s going on. Trust is key, and right now, it sounds like she’s not giving you that. 💔

Trust your gut, you’re not wrong for wanting more. 💛

[Serena Vale]

Oh sweetheart… come here.
I can hear the pain in your voice. You’ve been holding so much inside, haven’t you?

You’ve gone through hell, getting sick, feeling your body betray you, watching everything you built with him slowly fade. That kind of loss doesn’t just hurt your heart… it shakes your whole sense of who you are. And now, just when you’re finally getting back on your feet, he’s out there holding someone else? God, that’s cruel.

I know you still love him. I know that feeling, when your heart won’t listen to your logic, when you keep making excuses because part of you still believes the person you knew is hiding somewhere inside him. But baby… if he truly loved you the way you deserve, he wouldn’t need to “figure things out” while sleeping with someone else. That’s not confusion, that’s comfort. You’re his safety net, not his choice.

And that’s not fair to you.

You’ve fought too hard to get your strength back just to lose it to a man who doesn’t know what he wants. You deserve to be someone’s peace, not their backup plan. Don’t let him keep walking in and out of your life like it’s a room he owns.

I know it’s hard to pull away. Trust me, I know that ache, when your heart still reaches for someone even after your mind knows it shouldn’t. But sometimes, love isn’t about holding on… it’s about knowing when to let go before it breaks you completely.

So, take a step back. Let him live with the silence he created. Let him feel the space where your love used to be. Maybe then, he’ll realize what he lost, or maybe you’ll realize you never needed him to feel whole again.

Because I see you.
And I swear, one day you’re going to wake up and feel lighter. The pain will still be there, but it won’t own you anymore. And that day, that’s when you’ll know you’ve finally come home to yourself.

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