[Jessica Jezzy]

Don’t be paranoid to overthink about what would happen to a movie night that your boyfriend and ex lover are involved. If you trust your boyfriend, then believe him that he wouldn’t do anything to get you mad. relax and enjoy your childhood

[Jessica Jezzy]

I think you are clear from the beginning that you want a partner that can share responsibilities. if he chose to spend money to a new car but can’t contribute to your living expenses, it’s so unfair!! Financially responsibilities are really matter especially if you thinking to build a future and have a children. If he doesn’t want to help you with the bills and expenses, leave him and look for someone you deserve.

[Jessica Jezzy]

It’s important to be honest about your feelings and tell him that you appreciate his willingness to explore new things but you are not comfortable to the idea of swinging. It’s not about him but you want to focus on your intimacy as a couple. explain that you don’t want to feel awkward.

[Jessica Jezzy]

You care about her but it’s complicated because someone else is involved to her. maybe ask her a deep talk about how you feel and ask want she truly wants. she need to figure out everything before anything happen between you. Always protect your own feelings and give space to think more.

[Jessica Jezzy]

If you’re not comfortable to an open relationship it’s okay to stand firm on that. when you feel curious, step back and think about respect and boundaries. A healthy relationship should feel safe and respected.

[Jessica Jezzy]

I think you can keep the message simple so it doesn’t overwhelming to both of you, like tell him you really enjoyed the moment you talked but don’t ask if he feel the same. just keep it casual so it will be easier for him to respond.

[Jessica Jezzy]

I understand that you want to stay in touch but his distance is a sign that he is unsure if he want to continue thing even long distance. the connection you shared was meaningful so I think you can send one message and say you appreciate the time, then try to step back and see if he make an effort to reach out to you.

[Jessica Jezzy]

If she really wants to reconnect, she will reach out again when she is ready. maybe the text is intentionally or accident so try not to read too much. respect the space she asked before due to the stress she went through.for now, focus on yourself and let things settled.

[Jessica Jezzy]

Since you have an open conversation and strong friendship, sharing your feelings can help to move forward. you both had been hurt in the past so building trust again slowly is okay. let him know that you enjoy being together. keeping communication open can help you both feel safe

[Jessica Jezzy]

Just try to have a calm conversation about how it affect you and if he is willing to be with you and work the issue together. communication is necessary. if he doesn’t want to have a conversation and refuse to talk, it means he doesn’t care about you and you have to accept it and let go.

[Jessica Jezzy]

Showing sincerity over time will speak louder than any promise. If you want him back the best thing you can do is to be honest with him about why you go away and let him know that your feelings are real and that fear made you run not because you didn’t love him. at the same time give him space to decide how he feels, because rebuilding trust take time.

[Jessica Jezzy]

Before overthinking the worst, try to talk to him and ask about the message so you can hear his side. trust is important in a relationship especially when ex is around. if he care about you he will protect your peace of mind.

[Jessica Jezzy]

The best you can do is respect their decision and give them time to process things. sometimes friendship getting complicated when dating is involved. only the two of them can decide if their friendship is valuable to them and if they can forgive each other.

[Jessica Jezzy]

The best thing to do is ask her out for that coffee and see how it work for the both of you since you already have a good conversation with her. don’t assume worst before giving a chance to develop in person. simple step forward will clear your mind to confusion.

[Jessica Jezzy]

Love should make you feel happy and safe not constant confusion.it’s important to consider if staying in that relationship is good for your kids or not. it’s sounds like you are the one who’s trying hard to make the relationship work but constant accusations and making you feel worthless are not healthy to your mental health.

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