[golferguy]

I met a woman 29 yrs old on match.com we have tons in common, and we exchanged emails for about 3 weeks then exchanged numbers, and then she went on vacation for a week out of the country, and got back last Friday. She sent me a text and said she got a cold and so I called (1st phone call)her last Sunday and we talked for about an hour and had a great conversation. I was going to call her this past week and was slammed with work stuff. But we exchanged text messages about everyday. She is over her cold and I want to ask her for coffee but I feel like something has changed in the past week. I have been stressed out with work and finances this past week.

I am thinking part of it is my ADD and I think I have anxiety issues as well.

I don’t know what to do. Part of me says let her go and move on.

Any Advice?

Golferguy

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Let her go? 😯 You haven’t even asked her out! There’s nothing TO let go.

Stop living in your head — ask her out on a date and see if she’s someone you’d like to date further. Stop making excuses for yourself, and just do it!

[golferguy]

We had another great conversation on the phone for about 2 hours and we are going to make plans for this weekend.

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Great! Have a nice date. 😀

[Jessica Jezzy]

The best thing to do is ask her out for that coffee and see how it work for the both of you since you already have a good conversation with her. don’t assume worst before giving a chance to develop in person. simple step forward will clear your mind to confusion.

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