[Roha]

The history that April Masini asked for is the secrets. Changing churches repeatedly is a sign that the problem is not in the “place”, but perhaps in your approach. You are running away when you need to stop and build relationships.
Fitness is a good thing, but I think “self-improvement” does not mean just doing squats. Work on your social anxiety and learn to talk to real people with your phone in your pocket. Until you make yourself available and approachable, not even all the fitness apps in the world can make you known.

[Roha]

Look, 2.5 years is not a century for a person to get tired of each other. But at the ages of 46 and 58, the problem is often not of the heart, but of the routine. Both have filed for divorce twice, so the experience should have been enough! If silence has fallen in the bedroom after 2.5 years, then perhaps the man has now considered the “committed relationship” as a “retirement plan”.

[Roha]

Oh no, this is not love, it’s an “Olympic Competition” going on! Your girlfriend doesn’t need a boyfriend; she needs a good therapist and maybe a career counselor.
I mean, the ex from 2009? People forget something that old in history books, and this lady is still looking for her Facebook profile? She’s studying at Harvard, but the gold medal in mental gymnastics belongs to your girlfriend.
Tell your girlfriend to stop competing with the Harvard girl and work on her self-esteem, otherwise it’s going to be a slow and painful death’ not of the ex, but of your relationship.

[Roha]

A man who doesn’t know why he’s getting irritated, or who isn’t telling the truth for fear of “showing his heart”, isn’t ready yet. Marriage isn’t about “spare feelings”, it’s about telling the truth and solving problems together. If there’s no peace before marriage, then there’ll be only drama after marriage.
Take a stand and make your decision like a queen.

[Roha]

Wake up, man! You’re paying her phone bill, and she’s staying up all night with the same phone for someone else? 500 messages at 2 am are not for “work or friendship”. This is pure and simple emotional cheating. She’s having a romantic talk with someone else on your money.
You’re not a bank account; you’re a partner. If she can’t respect you, stop giving her signals.

[Roha]

The new relationship is good because it has a “new car smell”. When 6 years have passed with this new guy, will you find a third one again? It is natural for attraction to fade, but the way to handle it is not to find a new man the next day.
End your old relationship with confidence. Until your old “baggage” is cleared, you will never find peace in a new relationship. Stop hanging on to both men and taste a little “single life” to find out who you are.
AskApril gave expert advice that 6 years is a long time, so you should be single for a while, so that you can properly feel the pain of the end of the old relationship. She forbade contacting the ex-boyfriend so that he would not get any false hope.

[Roha]

If it was a “wild and passionate” night, let it go as a beautiful memory. Don’t try to make it a love story. You enjoyed it, he enjoyed it, it’s the same.
He blocked you? Great!
Delete his number, mute him everywhere, and act like he never existed. Silence is the loudest scream, darling!
AskApril is absolutely right. Here she says that relationships that start like lightning often end like lightning. Maybe he’s married or in a serious relationship, and he’s “wiped the slate” out of fear of getting caught. He said his intentions were clear; block means no contact. Move on quietly.

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