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  • in reply to: My 24 year old boyfriend hates sex. #53260
    Angle
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    Take care of yourself make yourself look good and always present yourself well. Try to become more confident and maybe go to the gym and work on your fitness.

    You can also try holding off on having sex for a while so that he might start to miss it.

    He is still a man, and I’m sure he will still look for sex, especially since you’re both not that old yet.

    in reply to: Relationship advice #53258
    Angle
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    I don’t think your fiancée is as interested in this arranged marriage as you are.

    This is still different from two people who both made the decision equally.

    Try talking to your parents and her parents and explain the problems you’re encountering. That way, you can try to fix things now so you can sort it out early on.

    in reply to: Engaged but still have feelings for ex #53256
    Angle
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    So technically, this girl who is now your fiancée might just be a rebound. You’re still young, so think carefully—marriage is not like food that you can just take in and then spit out.

    You should see your partner as a lifetime companion, especially if you plan to marry them. While you are still engaged, it’s important to really think things through because this could become a major problem if your fiancée finds out.

    Or maybe you’re just not really ready to get married yet, so you’re using your ex as a reason to back out.

    in reply to: Slept with someone else while we were broken up #53254
    Angle
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    That kind of issue is really heavy for a man, to be honest, especially if you just broke up and then you had sex with someone else right away. It’s normal if he feels like he’s questioning or interrogating you every day because of what happened he has lost trust in you, and that’s something that’s very hard to rebuild, even over time.

    So it’s really up to you whether you want to stay and try to fix things with him, or just let him go and start fresh with someone new.

    in reply to: Friends/partners #53252
    Angle
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    Yes, it is possible, but not in all situations. It still depends on how you broke up whether it was on good terms or not.
    It also depends on the situation. If either of you has a new partner, they should be aware of it and also be okay with it, so that it doesn’t cause any problems.

    And of course, you should both know your limits and how far things should go if you want to maintain the friendship.

    I hope this helped. 🙂

    in reply to: Combining 2 families #53250
    Angle
    Member #382,808

    First, his wife has already passed away, so don’t stress yourself too much about that. You’ve also said yourself that he treats you and your children well and is generally good to you, which is a positive thing.

    Second, just because he mentioned that no men in his family live past 40 doesn’t automatically mean he will die before 40 especially if he doesn’t have any illness. It’s not something that is necessarily set in stone.

    As for the financial side, it would be better to start making things stable now. You can never really predict what will happen in life, so if that’s what you’re worried about, it’s best to always be prepared especially since you both have children.

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