[Zandrea]

I think he’s getting something from the other woman that he’s not getting from you, but that doesn’t mean there’s anything wrong with you. He just isn’t someone who knows how to be content.
The problem is, even though you’re happy with him and ready to settle down, you don’t really see any actions from him that are moving your relationship toward that kind of future.
What makes this even harder is that because he has cheated on you more than once, it may become difficult for you to trust him again, and that kind of situation isn’t healthy in a relationship. But again, this is not your fault; it’s his.
At this point, I think you should focus on yourself first. You need to protect your emotional well-being and consider moving on for now.

[Zandrea]

Don’t wait for anything else to happen. Everything can be resolved through a proper conversation, so it’s better if you talk to him for your own peace of mind.

You should also reflect on yourself, there might be something you’re lacking that’s causing him to cheat. I’m not saying what your husband is doing is right, but you also need to look at your own behavior and see if there’s anything contributing to the situation.

[Zandrea]

If you don’t talk to your friend Shana, you won’t have peace of mind for sure, you’ll always have a lot of questions in your head. That’s why my advice is to confront your friend so you can get the answers you need, and so you can also distance yourself from her if necessary.

[Zandrea]

Why don’t you just ask her out instead of waiting for her to reply? Maybe there’s another reason why she didn’t respond, but that doesn’t automatically mean she’s not interested in you. You even make her laugh, so that’s already a good sign.

[Zandrea]

You already want to settle down and start a family, but you’re not even sure about your partner. If you keep spending your time on something uncertain, nothing will really change for you, you won’t be able to settle like that.

Why not look for someone else who is more serious, someone who won’t stress you out or hurt you, instead of wasting your time there? The answer is actually simple, and I know deep down you already know it too.

There’s just a part of you that you can’t let go of her yet, but sometimes you have to, for your own happiness.

[Member]

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