[Jake4880]

I’ve been talking to a girl I like in study hall for about a week now and I was making good conversation and making her laugh and I decided to snapchat her but she opened it and she didn’t respond twice. What does this mean and what should I do now besides move on.

[April Masini, your AskApril]

I don’t think you should move on — I think you should ask her out! 😉 Just because she didn’t open your Snapchat doesn’t mean she’s not interested in you. Be a little more persistent. 😎 Invite her to have coffee or see a movie and if she says yes, you’ll know she’s interested. If she says no, [i]then[/i] you can move on. But don’t give up so easily — before you’ve even given it a shot! 🙂

[Sally]

You’re talking to her in person, she laughs, things feel good then she leaves you on open like it’s nothing. It’s confusing, but it’s also super common.
Here’s the simple truth: if she wanted to keep the conversation going, she would’ve. Girls your age don’t overthink this stuff the way guys do. If she’s excited, she replies. If she’s unsure or not that into it, she kind of drifts.

It doesn’t mean she hates you or that you embarrassed yourself. It just means you have more clarity than you did yesterday.

Now what? Keep being normal around her. Be friendly, talk in study hall like you always do, but don’t chase it on Snapchat. Let her come toward you if she wants to.
If she doesn’t, it’s okay. Not every smile turns into something.

[Tara]

She’s not interested, it’s that simple! You’re trying to decode a message that’s already been delivered loud and clear. If a girl likes you, she doesn’t forget how to use her thumbs. She replies. She engages. She keeps the conversation going. When she leaves you open twice, after laughing in person? That means you were entertainment in the moment, not someone she wants outside the classroom.

And don’t kid yourself, asking “what should I do besides move on” is you hoping there’s some secret fix that makes her magically care. There isn’t. The verdict: stop snapping her, stop hovering, stop trying to revive a dead spark. Hold your damn dignity and act like a guy who doesn’t need to chase someone who already opted out. Move on and mean it.

[Zandrea]

Why don’t you just ask her out instead of waiting for her to reply? Maybe there’s another reason why she didn’t respond, but that doesn’t automatically mean she’s not interested in you. You even make her laugh, so that’s already a good sign.

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