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EmilyMember #382,824The problem is not with the parents; the problem is with this guy’s “priority list”. Being an hour late on the first date, and that too because of “cleaning”? Bro! If he were so passionate about cleaning, he would have married Cinderella!
I think this guy is actually using his parents as a “shield”. When a guy is boring or doesn’t want to put in the effort in a relationship, “the family doesn’t agree” or “mom said the work was done” is the easiest excuse.
If you haven’t taken a stand yet, then next year you will be celebrating your “anniversary” by cleaning his parents’ house. The future with such a guy means: “Our date is canceled because dad has to bring toothpaste.”
AskApril is absolutely right that you should stop being a “victim” and change your attitude. Don’t wait, go out and date other guys who value time.
EmilyMember #382,824AskApril has truly delivered a “Masterclass.” Her greatest strength is that she told Ant exactly what he needed to hear, rather than what he wanted to hear.
Ant, by the way, Kt is playing “Emotional Buffer” with you. Her new boyfriend probably isn’t giving her the emotional depth or history that you are, so she refills her “ego” and feelings by talking to you, and then goes back to Nick.
She’s having fun with Nick and keeping you hooked by sending you “tear-jerker” messages so that if Nick breaks up with her, you’ll be there.
The girl who is living with her boyfriend in another state and saying “I miss you” to you is not loyal to Nick either.
Ask April gives expert advice to move on, because long distance and the ex’s new boyfriend, on top of that, this situation is poison for you
EmilyMember #382,824Are you thinking, is holding the card a sign of love? Maybe he’s just a junk collector or maybe he sees that card as a way to keep you “hooked”. Holding the card is easy, telling the truth is hard, and he’s not telling the truth.
Sexygal!
The friend cheated, the guy lied. What’s your business between the two? This ‘best friend’ label is just to comfort your heart; the guy’s actions clearly show that he doesn’t value your feelings.
Being physical 20 times is not amistake, it’s a whole affair. That guy is lying to your face, and you’re still stuck in the 2011 card. Move on! This guy is not a red flag, it’s a whole red carpet
EmilyMember #382,824You are saying ‘I want to kiss her’ and when you held her hand, the girl says ‘let me go’. Yusuf, she is not impressed by you; she is afraid of you! Unless there is friendship, physical touch seems ‘creepy’, not ‘romantic’.
Yusuf is getting a little too ‘desperate’.
AskApril’s advice is good to speak with discretion, but Yusuf’s mind is stuck on direct kiss and love (love). He doesn’t need friendship, he needs a little social awareness!
EmilyMember #382,824You asked how to bring it up without it being “awkward”? The truth is, the truth is always a little bit awkward. If the guy was panicking after hearing ‘what’s our scene?’, he was going to run anyway.
If the guy was serious, he wouldn’t have to fiddle around. You
If he were serious, he wouldn’t feel the need to dodge the subject. Casie, you should just ask Aries directly, and if he still tries to change the topic, it’s time for you to change your route!
EmilyMember #382,824If you message her and she doesn’t respond, don’t message her again. When you keep asking “What happened?” or “Did I do something wrong?” you are underestimating your worth. Jhen thinks you have nothing else.
Michaela is now saying the phone might be lost. I think it’s wrong , if someone loses their phone, they log in from a laptop or use someone else’s phone to let you know. If she’s been gone for three days, she’s gone on purpose.
Jhen has treated you like an “Option”. You need to be a “Priority.” Move on and meet new people. Someone who can ignore three weeks of your effort in a single second isn’t worthy of you.- MemberPosts