[Casie]

Hi April,
I am Casie, 19. I just want to ask some advice from you. I met a guy in college and his name is Aries. We’ve been dating since last month and he is fun and I enjoy it when I’m with him but I’m not sure if he is emotionally available because when I asked about serious matters, he avoid talking about feelings. I don’t want to overthink but I do not want to be too attached to him while he is not ready for a serious relationship.
My question is, how do you know if someone is emotionally available? Is there any way that you can ask without being awkward? Thanks in advance.

[Michaela]

You know, most guys don’t like it when there’s already pressure for commitment early on. For them, that can be a red flag, especially if you’ve just started talking and haven’t even really had proper dates yet.

My advice is to get to know him better in a more natural way. Through that, you’ll eventually find the answer to your question.

[Emily]

You asked how to bring it up without it being “awkward”? The truth is, the truth is always a little bit awkward. If the guy was panicking after hearing ‘what’s our scene?’, he was going to run anyway.
If the guy was serious, he wouldn’t have to fiddle around. You
If he were serious, he wouldn’t feel the need to dodge the subject. Casie, you should just ask Aries directly, and if he still tries to change the topic, it’s time for you to change your route!

[Member]

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