[Zandro]

For me, it would be better if you both take a step back for now. Moving in together happened too quickly, and it seems like neither of you may have been fully ready for that level of commitment.
It would be better for him to first sort out his issues with his ex, especially since they have a child together. That’s not a small or simple situation.

If he’s able to resolve everything and he still genuinely chooses you and comes back, then maybe you’re really meant for each other. But for now, it might be better to pause things, it feels like this just isn’t the right time for both of you yet.

[Zandro]

There are many possible reasons. From what I can see, it seems like she may have lost interest in you. Because if you were already in the dating stage and she suddenly stopped, it could mean that during your dates, she didn’t really develop deeper feelings. It may be that she didn’t feel anything special, and because of that, she may have decided to stop things rather than continue.

[Zandro]

Don’t chase him anymore, just tell him how you feel. If he truly likes you, he will set aside any excuses or reasons for you.

[Zandro]

Even though you haven’t met even once, you’ve been talking for 3 years, that’s a huge amount of time you’ve invested. You need to accept that not all relationships like this work out.
It would be better for you to move on and find someone who is closer to your area. Long-distance relationships are not for everyone, and maybe it’s not for you either.
It’s time to move on, you’ve already spent too much time on him.

[Zandro]

It may not be a good idea to directly ask him about that, especially when it comes to a woman. It might be better if you just distance yourself before your feelings for him get deeper, since there’s still no clarity about his true intentions toward you. This way, you can also avoid getting hurt in the end.

[Zandro]

That is concerning, especially since you only found out through the phone bill. It’s possible that your husband may be cheating on you.

It would be best to talk to him properly and directly, without beating around the bush, so everything can be clarified. It’s important for both of you to be open with each other, because that is one of the things that strengthens a marriage.

[Zandro]

A good first date depends on you and the person you’re dating. But traditionally, what people usually do is go out for dinner or watch a movie, these are great ways to start getting to know each other.

[Zandro]

It’s better to ask her and clarify everything, even if there’s a chance you might not like the answer. Everyone has a past that isn’t perfect, and it’s also a good sign that she’s open with you and willing to change. But if what she did is really a big deal for you, then it might be better to just move on rather than let her past keep becoming an issue for you.

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